If You're Still Eating Emotionally...Try This
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Did you learn more about yourself last week? If you missed that email, make sure you do that part first and then come back here. Losing weight can be scary. Stepping outside your status quo can bring up a lot of resistance in you and from the people close to you. Try this: Imagine yourself at your ideal weight. Notice what you look like. How do you feel? What are you wearing? What are you doing? Once you have a good sense of that, imagine all your friends, family, and significant others standing in a circle around you. What happens? How are you relating to them? Who is upset? Who is supportive? Note the people who are upset. Why are they reacting this way? Are they jealous? Will it change your relationship somehow? Whats the downside for them? What will upsetting them do to you? [>>>>>> Watch this video<<<<<<<] and complete the exercise to re-program the limiting beliefs you hold about yourself and your weight. Below is the Script for Tapping Away Self Sabotage As you tap on the karate chop point, take a big deep breath and tune into the constellation of emotions, thoughts, and beliefs you discovered in the previous exercise that are sabotaging your success. Notice this part of you that has been working so hard to keep you safe. Even though its methods are not always the best, let it know that you realize its had the best intentions for you. Thank it for wanting whats best for you, and for keeping you safe all these years. Even though I have really good reasons to keep this weight, I love and accept myself...Even though part of me doesnt want to let it go, I accept myself completely...Even though its kept me safe for so long, I accept myself and all my imperfections... I have really good reasons to keep this weight... Part of me doesnt want to let it go... Im not sure what will happen if I lose this weight... Someone might get mad... Life will change... Something bad might happen... There are so many unknowns... Its not safe to lose this weight... But another part of me wants to be lean and healthy... Its a constant battle... But I still love and accept all of me... And Im finding new ways to keep myself safe. Take a nice deep breath. Tapping through the points... I have good reasons to keep this weight... I really dont want to let it go... Im afraid of what will happen... I dont know what it will be like to reach my goal weight... So many things will change... Something bad might happen... Someone might get hurt... I dont know who Ill be without this weight... Im so used to it, its all I know. Im afraid of what might happen... What if people treat me differently?... What if I make them uncomfortable?... It wont be safe for them if I lose this weight... Everything will change... I just know something bad will happen... Its really not safe to let go of this weight... Ive decided to keep my problem... Ive have really good reasons to keep this weight... I dont want to let it go... I dont know who Ill be... Im not going to let the weight go... Its like an old friend... Its kept me safe for so long... I have SO many good reasons to keep this extra weight... Im so used to it... Its all I know. Deep Breath I honor these fears... I honor this part of me... Thank you for keeping me safe all these years... Thank you for wanting the best for me... Thank you for trying to keep things status quo... I release you from your duties... Youve done a great job... And now I am ready and willing to change... I am learning new ways to keep myself safe... Its safe to let go of these reasons... I honor this part for doing its best... Youve had some really good reasons... But now its time to let those go... I forgive you for holding me back... Im ready to step into my power... Im ready to love and accept all of me... I value myself and my true nature... I honor my process... I am peaceful with myself... It feels good to accept all of me... Its safe to be lean and fit... Its safe to feel good about myself... I am allowing my success... I am grateful for all the blessings in my life... It feels good to allow my true nature to shine. Take a deep breath. Go back to your good reasons and check the numbers again. Repeat the sequence. For even more effective results, while tapping through the points, use the phrases you wrote down in the Action Steps. Continue to repeat the process until your numbers are down to a 2 or below, and then go on to the next part of this exercise. Leave me a comment in the box below and tell me about your experience with this. I LOVE reading all your comments, so make sure you leave me one. :-) Stay tuned! Xo Brittany PS: If you know of someone else who wants to overcome emotional eating and self sabotage, pass this along to them! PPS: If you received this email from a friend, and youd like to receive more coaching tools like this, sign up here and well send em your way!